If HE didn't close the wrong door, we would never find the right door. God directs our path through the closing and opening of doors. One door closes, it forces you to change your course. He closes another door, it forces you to change your course again. Then finally, after a season of close doors, you find the open door and you walk right into your blessing. The Lord directs our paths through these opening and closing of doors, but instead of praising him for the closed door (which keeps us out of trouble and meeting some unexpected challenges), we get upset because we thought that we were suppose to finally walk into our season by the very appearance of the situation. (I've been through a few close door experiences that I was upset at first but then I realize that God didn’t open that door for me.)
Some closed doors are also opportunity for growth and development.
I have two personal leadership testimonies about close door experiences.
First, I am a member of a Fraternity in which I ran for the presidency of the local chapter, not once, not twice but three times. The first time I was not upset but by the second time, I was not a happy camper. I had vowed NEVER to seek that office again.
Due to the local door being closed, I was able to be elected President of the local NPHC Council (the governing body of all fraternities and sororities). I was able to use my skills in assisting the local council in becoming chartered. I became the Charter President of the first international NPHC Council. I went on to spend four (4) years as National First Vice-President (first international council member to serve in an international leadership role).During my tenure, I had the opportunity to develop some excellent leadership and networking skills.
This assisted me in making a difference when I finally ascended to the local presidency of the Fraternity. I was able to improve the operations of the chapter, increase the number of active financial members on the roll (the highest in the chapter history), hold a membership intake (the 1st in 10 years) and establish some important partnership. Due to my work as local chapter president, I was identified by the International President to serve in his Cabinet, becoming the first Bahamian to serve in a senior level position in the Fraternity.
Most of us spend so much time talking, crying, getting sick, grieving and being angry about the closed door in our lives, we don’t see the open door. Les Brown, legendary human-potential expert, says our trials and disappointments can take us all to a door of discovery and greatness.
My second close door experience happened in October 2003. I had prepared to ascend to the presidency of the National Pan-Hellenic Council, Inc. I would have made history as the first individual outside of the United States to ascend to the presidency. Despite running a well organized campaign, I was rejected at the polls. I was disappointed for five minutes and then I realize that this close door happened for a reason. I never fully understood the reason for the closed door until about nine months later (Isn't it amazing how God works, he allowed nine months of incubation) when along with a group of other excited individuals came together and organized The Bahamas Primary School Student of the Year Foundation. You see, between 1997 – 2004, the Student of the Year Committee worked hard in organizing the annual Bahamas Primary School Student of the Year Awards Program and raised some $50,000.00 in scholarships and prizes. However, after the establishment of the Foundation in 2004, we were able to solicit over $450,000.00 in scholarships and prizes for deserving primary school students in The Bahamas. Because the international leadership door was closed in 2003, I was able focus my attention on making a difference in The Bahamas.
Along with Foundation Board Chairman Cyndi Williams-Rahming, I was able to lead a dynamic Board of Directors as its President & CEO. I can now look back at this closed door experience and say that my community is better because of it. Yes, I benefitted from an outstanding leadership training that prepared for my current assignment. Over 1,000 students have benefitted because of this "closed door" experience.
So Leaders, You may have been terminated from your job that you assisted in developing - praise God for the new opportunities that will be or was manifested because of this closed door. If you are a member of your civic, fraternal, political or religious organization and a door closed. Be thankful because God is preparing a new assignment for you.
If you were waiting to hear from an agency that has frustrated you totally or denied you, remember, God is working this situation out in HIS time.
I would therefore like to encourage you, as I encourage myself that whenever a door appears to close in your face (and there have been a few for me and as long as you live, there will be a few for you), be encouraged because God is sending you in another direction. Sometimes HE is just closing the wrong door for the right reason and season. I therefore leave you with these powerful words: “Commit to the Lord in whatever you do and your plans will succeed." (Proverbs 16:3) Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith, he said, why did you doubt?” (Matthew 14:31) 'The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way.' (Psalms 37:23) The Mountain top is glorious, but it is in the Valley that I will grow!
Always Remember God gives you... Enough Happiness to keep you Going Enough Trials to keep you Strong Enough Sorrows to keep you Human Enough Hope to keep you Happy Enough Failure to keep you Humble Enough Success to keep you Eager Enough Friends to give you Comfort Enough Wealth to meet your Needs Enough Enthusiasm to make you look forward Enough Faith to banish depression Enough Determination to make each day a better day than the last. and Enough Honey to keep you Sweet Life must be lived forward but can only be understood backwards. If you love God, share this and He will continue to open and close doors for you. Finally, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress. (Psalms 46: 10 – 11)
Please feel free to share your "Closed door" experience, it may just help someone who is going through a battle at this hour.